Upcoming events.
"Dark Tantra, The Power Dance Between the Masculine and Feminine"
Tue, April 26, 2022
4:30 PM – 6:00 PM PDT
The Better Sex Membership is an ongoing series of events curated with the intention of supporting Better Sex for you and your partners.
In being able to embraces your shadow side as well as your spirit side you have more range and can tap into your Good/boy/girl as well as your Bad/girl/boy to integrate the power from both ends of the spectrum.
Are you curious about your unspoken, taboo, or dark desires—and want a safe, welcoming space to explore them?
Join us and learn the essential building blocks for adding healthy power dynamics to your relationships so you can start having more fun and more of the kind of passionate sex you dream about.
This is an ONLINE class where we get out of our chairs for some embodied experience.
This week we are turning our attention to the "Dark Tantra"
What is Dark tantra?
Like Tantra it’s self there are as many answers as there are people answering it. For our purposes I define Tantra is a spiritual practice that involves the body to connect to self and spirit.
That connection can happen as a single, a couple and a group.
Dark Tantra puts its attention on the taboo and forbidden as a way to surrender to the divine.
The class is an introduction to the elements of play that make for safe, sane and consensual play.
Overview
Simple Guide To Allow You To Access Your Power Vulnerable Situations
5 minute Dark Tantra Breathing Tool to use in the shadows
Steps to the Dance between the Masculine/DOM and Feminine/sub Energy (this is not gender based)
Tapping into your Core Fantasies
and much more this class is open to singles and couples of all genders and relationship styles.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date is not your average singles event, and it's back in person!
About this event
Dust off those quarantine cobwebs and come out to meet new singles at Tantra Speed Date.
This is not the drab traditional speed dating experience you may have had. Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 20 dates in a Puja circle.
Over 15,000 singles have gone on 80,000+ dates in 30+ cities worldwide. 95% have matched with one or more dates. If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills. You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
Get your ticket today!
Sold out? Can't make it? See other dates:
~ VIDEO FROM THE EVENT ~
~ IMPORTANT DETAILS ~
* Please arrive on time to check in and receive your dating materials.
* Ceremony portion begins 30 minutes after start time. Doors will be closed for the duration of the ceremony. LATE ARRIVALS WILL NOT BE ADMITTED. See cancellation/late policy below
* Events do sell out, so purchase tickets online to guarantee your spot. Door tickets are cash only and subject to capacity and gender balance. Tickets are non-transferable and cannot be sold or exchanged.
~ COVID-19 INFORMATION ~
We will follow government and venue guidelines for Covid-19 safety that are in effect at the time of the event. These can change, so please check the event details page regularly. We're all in this together so let's keep everyone safe by taking a few preventative steps: When you arrive at the venue, please wash your hands or use the hand sanitizer we provide. We will also have masks for those who need it/want it/or if regulations require. All activities can be modified to be socially distanced as needed (your host can guide you through that). Lastly, if you have cold or flu-like symptoms, or have been near someone who has tested positive for Covid, play it safe and stay home. Just let us know and we'll happily refund or transfer your ticket so you can come another time.
Updated 1/21/22 - San Francisco currently requires that all attendees show proof of vaccination for indoor events as well as masking. We will have masks on hand for those who need it. And don't worry, we'll have so much fun you'll forget you're wearing one. :)
~ FAQ ~
What is Tantra Yoga?
Tantra is thousands of years old (of Hindu and Buddhist tradition) and has become a buzzword, which unfortunately has some misleading definitions. Translated from Sanskrit, it means "weaving," which means bringing oneness to yourself and consciousness to what you do. The exercises are designed to bring you into a state of being more present when you meet your dates. And who doesn't want to be more present, right?
What is a Puja?
A Puja is an intentional ceremony. In Sanskrit it means reverence, honour, an offering. It is a ritual designed to open our hearts and allow us to see the inner beauty within ourselves and all beings. It invites us into the elegant dance of masculine and feminine in a warm space of oneness and connection--what a great way to start your first date!
What does it look like?
Participants form two circles facing each other. The men form the outside circle and the women form the inside, with each woman facing a man. Each pair then share a meaningful exchange through a directed exercise (a Puja “station”), which can be for a few seconds or a few minutes. Then they put their hands together in Namaste, thank each other and--like a speed date--rotate to the next person. The ceremony ends when everyone has rotated a full circle.
What if I don't feel comfortable doing the exercises?
Thanks for asking! While the exercises are straightforward and fun, you are always 100% at choice for how you wish to participate. If you find an exercise that doesn't work for you, then--just like in yoga--you have the option to modify or completely opt out. We encourage everyone to participate at their own comfort level, and our facilitators demonstrate what that looks like so everyone is clear before we begin.
What's the age range?
Some events are open and some have a specific age range (stated in the title)--though it's merely a suggestion, not a rule. See our statistics and learn why people love the open events on our FAQ.
What is the covid-19 policy?
We will follow the venue requirements that are in effect at the time of the event. See the Covid-19 Information section the page for your event
What if I don't match with anyone?
As many of our attendees say, "I don't even care if I match with anyone, this was amazing!" That said, we geek out on data. Our statistics say there is a 95% chance you'll match with AT LEAST one person. But if for whatever reason the probability fails you, we've got you covered. Your next ticket will be free!
Why is this experience called 'More than Dating'?
This event is more than just a speed date. It's about bringing more connection, and perhaps healing, to the masculine and feminine within us. That's the juicy part of a connection that makes relationships so fun. Men learn how to hold a grounded masculine space. And when that happens, women can relax into their feminine and not have to do or hold so much. This creates a new way of relating that is easeful and connected, and not something you can ever experience in a bar or on a dating app. We believe this is why people love it so much and why one participant said it will 'restore your hope in dating.'
More questions?
We're happy to answer! See our FAQ or Contact Us.
Deborah Tantra Kat is a certified Tantric Educator, Bondassage Trainer and Orgasmic Meditation (OM) Desire Coach, supporting great sex and incredible relationships worldwide.
Contact: sf@tantrany.com
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date - Find Your Valentine!
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
New Year Tantra Celebration
A Tantric Start for the New Year ~ Creating the Life You Want to Live
About this Event
So you have heard about this Tantra thing and perhaps you’ve had a small taste of Tantra, you have had the experience of connecting with yourself and others from a grounded open-hearted space.
You’ve heard about benefits both in and out of the bedroom, and you want more – now it’s time to learn more.
The Tantra Circle is about taking a deeper dive into the principles and practices Tantra and living your life from that place. It is inspiration, community, and skills, for the householder.
If you felt more connected and alive after an evening Tantra class and want to integrate this feeling into your life, and the New Year this is an opportunity to practice putting principles into action.
Presented in a safe and sacred space…fully clothed…with open minds and open hearts we will
* Tap into your deepest cravings around the kind of connection you really want.
* Discover your own pleasure and power points so you can best ask for what you want with a partner.
* Learn essential tools to step into your most desirable self at any time.
* Know how to powerfully ask for what you want in a way that your partner can’t wait to fulfill those requests.
* Hone your ability to listen and give exquisite attention to your partner in exactly the ways that please them.
* and so much more…
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Tantra Speed Date
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date isn't your average singles event.
Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 24 dates in a traditional Puja circle.
Over 8,000 singles have gone on 65,000+ dates in 25+ cities worldwide in just two years. 95% have matched with one or more dates.
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills.
You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
PS: If you don't match, your next event is on us!