Deborah Kat Coaching
Bondage, Massage and Blindfolds OH MY!
In our commitment accessibility, help make this podcast more accessible to those who are hearing impaired or those who like to read rather than listen to podcasts. The transcription is far from perfec... ...more
Musing
June 15, 2025•36 min read
Cutting the Energetic Cord: How I Freed Myself from an Emotional Loop
Sometimes, relationships evolve in ways that no longer serve us, and letting go can feel like an impossible task. ...more
Musing
December 18, 2024•3 min read
What Working at a Japanese Hostess Bar Taught Me About Worth
There are so many ways to read that quote. I see it as a reminder that I am a unique and sexy human and though not everyone values what I have to offer, for some people I am their first choice. Over ... ...more
Musing
July 13, 2024•4 min read
The Art of Receiving: Learning to Reap What You Sow
It's funny how life can sometimes feel like a garden full of untended plants. I often find myself enthusiastically planting seeds—starting new projects, buying books, or picking up hobbies—only to neg... ...more
Musing
May 25, 2024•3 min read
Checklist for Negotiating a BDSM Scene
Negotiating a scene (or a previously planned, consented to, communicated BDSM event for those not in the know… yet 😉) can be one of the more intimidating things to navigate when you’re first getting ... ...more
Musing
May 25, 2022•4 min read
BDSM for Beginners
BDSM is one of my favorite types of play, but to those outside the community, it can seem scary, overwhelming, and dangerous. When done right, though, it’s one of the most pleasurable, safe, and enlig... ...more
Musing
April 17, 2022•3 min read
I see clients in Santa Cruz, CA and Menlo Park, CA for in-person Sex and Relationship
Coaching. I also provide virtual coaching opportunities.
