Does any of this sound familiar?
Hey Lovers, Playmates and Partners…
Your relationship feels more like routine roommates instead of remarkable connection
Your Partner has trouble finding your pleasure buttons
You wonder, will your sex life ever fulfill your fantasies
You are not alone
I’ve heard these worries time and again from clients who have all but given up on the idea of having a fantastic sex life and satisfying relationship.
This is something that you can change
I know it’s easy to believe that you are broken, undesirable, weird or just not ‘good’ at sex or relationship.
You may think that you’re not attractive enough, connected enough, or sexy at all.
I want you to know: That’s not true.
I believe that ANYONE (yes, including you) can have delicious, juicy sex and intimacy that you are craving.
The truth is that it takes some learning to turn yourself “on” and then become the Relationship Master you have always fantasized about.
But here’s the deal… we don’t learn these things in the general course of life, do we?
Have you ever had relationship conversation at the dinner table? No.
Did you ever learn how to please a lover and get what you want in return during a high school sex-ed class? Probably not
Did your first partner show you exactly how to be an incredible lover and have amazing orgasms? I doubt it.
You see, in today’s world, you’ve either got the internet– with it’s myths, bad porn and mixed information or a pile of inexperience (yours or your friends’) to teach you about sex and intimacy.
That hasn’t worked so well, has it?
HOWEVER…
With the support of a skilled expert who won’t flinch, blush, or run away from your most embarrassing questions, you really can learn how to master relationships and become an expert in extraordinary pleasure
That’s where I come in…
Over the last 20+ years I have worked with hundreds of singles and couples on their sex life. Together, we have cleared out the sexual skeletons in their closet so they can have not just satisfying….. but spectacular sex (whatever that looks like to them.)
This is work that I love. And honestly, this is my greatest gift: to create a non-judgmental space for you to dance with your sexual demons, align with your deepest sexual desires and create the juicy, passionate sex life you want.
My story didn’t start off this way…
I’ve always been a sensual person but growing up, I was told the mixed message that sex is wonderful but it will kill you. I was told that you have to be in some kind of a relationship in order to have sex.
Do these stories sound familiar?
Because of that story, more than once I found myself in the kinds of relationships I didn’t quite want – just to feed my desire for sex.
But, doing relationships that way doesn’t really work. After one particularly unpleasant breakup, I found myself devastated, curled up in a ball unable to function.
That was the moment I decided: Deborah, it’s time to learn how to do sex on MY TERMS.
So, I started to explore…
I read anything and everything I could find on sex & dating (this was before the internet was a thing) and eventually found myself in classes with all kinds of mentors and teachers who would openly talk about sex and answer many of the things I was wondering.
From there I dove deeper into becoming a teacher myself with certifications in three different Tantra methods, as a Bondassage Trainer and an Orgasmic Meditation Coach.
Now, I get bring the thousands of hours I’ve spent in trainings, classes and bedrooms (as well as other fun spots!) to you so that you can have the support and safety you need to explore, have fun and enjoy a juicy sex life.
That’s why I created
“Relationship Mastery: The Art of Extraordinary Pleasure”
Your mission should you choose to accept it is to enjoy sexy date nights with your partner where you feel confident in your desires , have deeply connected conversations and experiment with something different in the bedroom.
Imagine waking up the next morning feeling deeply satiated and like you can revel in this warmly delicious feeling for the rest of the morning.
That’s what’s possible from Relationship Mastery…
What will you learn?
Embark on an 8-week transformative journey where you'll redefine the bounds of physical connection, deepen your bond with your partner and master the skills for a satisfying and sensual relationship.
⎷ Cultivate a Safe Space for Vulnerable Communication
Transform your relationship by fostering trust and intimacy, enabling you to weave a thread of vulnerability into every interaction, bringing you closer than ever to your partner. Learn how to confidently speak up and ask for what you want (or don’t want) so you get exactly what you desire in the relationship.
⎷ Step into Empowerment with Your Partner
Unlock your sexual confidence and discover the pleasure that comes when you articulate and explore your desires together, leading to a bedroom dynamic that's both electrifying and profoundly satisfying.
⎷ Experiment with New Pleasure Techniques
Dive into the treasure trove of erotic experiences, mastering the art of pleasure that will elevate your intimate connection to exhilarating new heights and keep you both craving more.
What’s Included?
8 Group Training Calls
Gain priceless insights and personalized guidance in these interactive sessions to learn practical techniques, practice in a safe space and get live support on your journey to better sex.
Mindful Mornings
Incorporate the ancient wisdom of Tantra into your mornings, nurturing a sacred sexual energy that will infuse your entire day with an intensified sense of passion and connection.
Direct Message Support
Have your most pressing concerns and intimate questions addressed on-the-go, so you stay aligned on the path toward an extraordinary sex life.
Private Online Community
A safe space for community support , regular prompts for reflection, extra content and a place to ask questions so that you’re not alone through this relationship and personal journey.
Access to the Better Sex Library
Access my 20+ years of accumulated research in relationship and pleasure techniques, as well as my own archive of Masterclasses and two Summits on a range of topics to continue your sexual exploration.
Relationship Lab Assignments
Regular Play Assignments treating your relationship as a laboratory to explore new ideas, learn together, and evolve as individuals and as a couple.
Relationship Mastery: The Art of Extraordinary Pleasure
Starting March, 2025
This 8-week ONLINE course is $1397 per couple or $997 per individual
As a lover, a partner, and someone who enjoys physical connection, you can have the satisfying sex life that you’ve only privately imagined so far!
Here’s what others have said!
“Deborah makes me feel like I can really be myself. I sense her capacity to hold me through difficult feelings and her joy in my celebrations. I can see the mischievous look in her eye when she’s taking me forward and it makes me want to open up more. I highly recommend Deborah as a coach — the possibilities with her are endless.”
-Jessie
“Before I say anything else, please let me start by saying THANK YOU! Nothing Linda and I have done over the last several years has brought us closer together than the time we spent with you last Saturday. Your tenderness to her brought her to tears and helped us share things about ourselves that we have never done before. While I thought Tantra had some good elements, I didn't realize how powerful and effective it could be. Before we met, you asked what would "satisfy" me. I told you that I wasn't sure, but that I didn't think Tantra would be very satisfying. I was wrong. Looking into each other's eyes and the touching exercises we did together, under your direction, still move us both powerfully, even though we did them almost a week ago.”
-Joshua & Linda
In case you were wondering…
This is for you if:
You have lost your sex drive and don’t know where to find it
You are a couple or a paired single
You and your partner are looking to liven things up and deepen your connection
You are willing to be open, raw, vulnerable and honest with yourself and a partner
You long for the satisfying relationship and turned-on sex life you crave
Is now the time to end your boring or non-existent sex life?
I really want your fantasies to become your everyday reality and I know that these 8-weeks are the beginning of you having that.
Join me in Relationship Mastery: The Art of Sensual Pleasure and discover for yourself what might be possible when you tap into the masterful lover you can be.
What the world needs now is happy, satisfied turned-on people. Let’s get started together.
With Love,
Deborah
Meet Your Mentor
As a seasoned dominatrix and certified Tantric Educator, I offer 20 years of expertise in seductive communication, empowerment, and pleasure mastery. My sensual journey, complemented by massage therapy proficiency, delves into desire, assertiveness, and the language of touch. Certified in Tantra, Kink, Flirting, Dating, and more, I provide a tantalizing guide to uncharted territories. In my passionate 24-year relationship, I understand the transformative power of intimate connections. From corporate CEOs to newlyweds, I've helped clients navigate the mysteries of sex. My mission is to make sex a driving force in your life, transforming stress into desire. With Tantra and Kink, I've empowered countless couples to communicate their deepest desires and master the art of pleasure. Let's embark on a journey where sex becomes the catalyst for your deepest cravings and most intimate connections.