Have more of your relationship DESIRES
without blowing up what you already have…

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Let’s be real…

With the rush of work or a life spent mostly on a computer, I know how easy it is to let things slip like relationships, family, free-time, and even a sex-life.

Even when you find some time away from your work for those things, they can feel more like draining demands than energizing fun.

You want more from your relationship, but worry that asking for more might blow up everything that’s comfortable, am I right?

Does it seem like it's too late to have your desires met?

I want you to know: That does not have to be true.

I believe that EVERYONE (yes, including you) gets to have the delicious, juicy relationship that they desire.

Hi, I’m Deborah, and I am passionate about helping people get more of what they want, without blowing up what they already have...

As a result of the work I do there is an opportunity for you to heal your relationship past to create a more empowered, juicy, satisfying relationship going forward.

(My not so secret mission: Better Sex = Better Humans = Better World. One relationship at a time.)

"I was feeling confused about how to channel my inner drive into positive channels as I was settling into my forties. Deborah helped me discover healthy outlets for my energy that has me feeling satisfied and revitalized." ~John

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 “Before I say anything else, please let me start by saying THANK YOU! Nothing Linda and I have done over the last several years has brought us closer together than the time we spent with you last Saturday. Your tenderness to her brought her to tears and helped us share things about ourselves that we have never done before. While I thought Tantra had some good elements, I didn't realize how powerful and effective it could be. Before we met, you asked what would "satisfy" me. I told you that I wasn't sure, but that I didn't think Tantra would be very satisfying. I was wrong. Looking into each other's eyes and the touching exercises we did together, under your direction, still move us both powerfully, even though we did them almost a week ago.” ~Joshua & Linda

I’d love to show you how desire & connection can transform your life.

For couples ready to go deeper...

Relationships are a practice. 

Great sex is too.
Nobody teaches us how to communicate, how to navigate desire, or how to repair after conflict. Those are skills. And they can be learned.

If the spark is dying. If you want to keep it alive.
If you're wondering how we got here, or if it's even salvageable... this is for you.

We must name what's true now, before we are able to change anything...

Imagine if...

You knew exactly what to practice next.

You could communicate without walking on eggshells.

You knew how to ask for what you want.

You felt desired again.

You were flirting with your partner.

You felt more alive together.

I see clients in Santa Cruz, CA and Menlo Park, CA
for in-person Sex and Relationship Coaching.

I also provide virtual coaching opportunities.